Have you ever marveled over the 3 point shooting of an amazing talent such as Steph Curry? It is a beautiful thing to watch him being guarded by one and occasionally two players before throwing up a seemingly impossible shot only to watch it float right through the net. What you should know is that even for the best shooter in the game, he averages about 40 percent of his three pointers throughout the season leaving us with a couple takeaways. With the best in the league touting an average of 4 out of 10 3-pointers never allow yourself to be discouraged by successfully executing a Jiu Jitsu technique 2 out of every 10 attempts. The other key takeaway is that to reach the level he did, he never allowed a miss to influence him. In Jiu Jitsu, just because you failed that does not mean the technique is not useful, rather you should continue to attempt it repeatedly until overtime you begin to develop a deeper understanding of it and it’s parts. Maybe one day you will even gain a reputation as being one of the most successful when attempting that move.
For those of us who practice BJJ, there is no denying the overwhelming physiological and emotional benefits. Many of us however, simply notice an improvement in mood, a more relaxed state, better sleep and a “runners high” after beginning to regularly attend class. Furthermore, there is an ever growing amount of evidence not only towards BJJ improving your mood but the powerful effects against PTSD. It has largely grown as one of the most effective natural therapies for those who have dealt with trauma or combat. My friends who practice BJJ or own academies will attest to this. The important part to take is that if BJJ can help someone who has dealt with the horrors of war without the need for copious amounts of drugs, there is little question that it can benefit the surging amounts of anxiety and depression that have befallen our youth, especially post Covid19.
There is a saying in Jiu Jitsu, quoted by the legendary Saulo Ribeiro which I believe holds true to this day. It goes “Jiu Jitsu is simple, we make it complicated”. In your quest for improvement you will find this wisdom to benefit you greatly in a complex topic as Jiu Jitsu that spans a vast array of topics ranging from takedowns to pins and submissions with variables such as body types, flexibility, mat experiences (wrestling or judo) and age, etc.
With all these factors and dynamics at play, simplicity is not to be confused with oversimplification. Oversimplification has shown to lead to lack of understanding of more complex ideas while simplicity stems from having knowledge of such but focusing rather on what is important. An example of oversimplification might be the idea that one should never expose their back to their partner. While this is true in part, sometimes it is necessary in order to escape a pin with the hopes of recovering a guard or offensive position while simplicity might be the idea that as the opponent gets closer to establishing a dominant position, greater risk is necessary to escape and avoid the position. Many of will agree that it will always be of benefit to simplify especially as we become more knowledgeable, not only for our benefit but those we share with.
Out of clutter, find simplicity-Albert Einstein
For most of us participating in Jiu Jitsu and life, there are things we want to accomplish. Maybe it’s achieving a black belt, winning the world championships or simply feeling confident that you can protect yourself against most aggressors.
On a fundamental level, many of us also understand that our goals are largely a product of time and energy and showing up to class a couple times a week just won’t cut it. The best practitioners are, no doubt, working towards their goals ALL THE TIME or whenever they can. And when they’re not doing it, they’re thinking about it. No one has to tell them to go in outside of class times and drill a technique or study the best competitors and scour YouTube or BJJ Fanatics looking for anything that will help them.
What I hope you understand is that this requires no special characteristics other than first knowing that it will take more than just showing up to the class. The good news is just like a new fitness program, rather than worry about whether your plan is perfect, you just have to start. You’ll find your “perfect” along the journey. And your “perfect” will probably change. The other thing worth knowing is that no matter how well intentioned or qualified your sensei is, they cannot achieve your goal for you. So go the extra mile for yourself, no one is stopping you.
When you take up a new activity or hobby, your efforts will often, sooner or later, be met with frustration. Understand that this is not uncommon and you are not exceptionally worse than the other students around you who seem to be excelling. What you must learn is the fundamental idea that YOU ARE NEVER TO COMPARE WITH ANYONE BUT WHO YOU WERE THE DAY BEFORE.
We are all unique and blessed with different skills and strengths, some of us having long legs, more coordination or different learning aptitudes. What can get lost in your journey is the fact that you began your Jiu Jitsu to achieve some form of self improvement. By learning to measure yourself only by whether or not you are improving, you will be able to better detect your progress in Jiu Jitsu which is sometimes all the encouragement you need to keep going.
Over the course of my 13 years of BJJ experience I have found that there is a clear and profound difference between going to class and absorbing whatever materials are being taught in the lesson AND understanding BJJ as a whole.
What most students do at their BJJ schools, is attend class to learn and apply techniques the teacher usually specializes in. In some cases, albeit rare, the teacher has developed a curriculum which the students follow. Whether or not the curriculum is actually effective stands to be known but at least there is thought and preparation going into the planning of each lesson.
What the best schools have done in the disciplines of Wrestling, Judo and Boxing is break the discipline itself into more digestible chunks and parts. For example, in boxing you may have days more dedicated to head movement, footwork, speed, power punching, etc. This is not meant to reflect how it should be done as it will vary gym to gym. The key factor is that there is a method to breaking apart and dissecting the sum of all parts with the end goal of mastering the art of Boxing, Wrestling, or BJJ.
This stands in complete contrast with the standard method of learning that is focused around learning the many techniques that make up the sport or art. An example of this in BJJ would be learning how to do an armbar attack from the bottom position on one day and the following days learning, a triangle attack, a Kimura attack, a takedown, until students learn multiple ways of doing things or your specific way. What this leads to is wide understanding of techniques rather than understanding each component and what it’s values, strengths and weaknesses are.
Ideally, a student should begin to develop an understanding of what to do in the Standing Position, Bottom Position and Top Position along with all the defensive and offensive aspects. This is done not by learning a wide variety of techniques but rather studying a systems based approach to the situations and reactions that occur within the Art as a whole.
An example of this in a training week might look like.
Week 1. Grip fighting, takedowns and going to the ground.
Week 2. Establishing a guard (gripping, defending, retaining) and setting up an attack (armbar, sweep or reversal,)
Week 3. Escaping pins (mount, side mount or back control) and attacking (armbar, sweep or reversal)
Week 4. Passing the legs, pinning (chest to chest, mount, side mount) and finishing from the top (armbar)
This is a rough example but in the course of a few months the student is not only well versed in the exact direction of the fight and what will occur but the attacks within each position are completely interchangeable. For example instead of studying a single leg takedown you might use a double leg or a tomoe nagae. In the case of substituting an attack you might use a Kimura attack instead of an armbar. This is very different than learning a series of submissions, takedowns and escapes with no order or relevance to the art as a whole. The end result, is a fighter who learns how to think about fighting from all the various positions versus how to apply single techniques.
Beauty is ever beside us when we stop to look. From a flawlessly timed and well executed submission in the sport of Jiu Jitsu to the people who make it up, we can only hope to allow our senses the opportunity to capture such moments worthy of appreciation. Your everyday mom and pop to your highschool age kid who need their respective outlets, all have something to offer.
When you stop and look around, you will find that there is something to gain from every experience with the people around you. Every second, every minute of every day. I urge you, take the time to stop and appreciate what is around you, you will be glad you did. After all, your inspiration has to come from somewhere 🙂
Did you know that every day of your life is spent wrestling? The key difference being that in this match the opponent is you. Your thoughts, your convictions, your feelings and your ego are on the line every day and may the best man win.
In order to win any combative event, the fighter must first make up his or her mind that he or she wants to achieve victory. Once you do, it is up to you to hold yourself accountable and own your losses, etc. No fighter exists who’s goal is not to claim victory decidedly.
Once the fighter has began this journey to becoming champion. Issues will arise that must be resolved, poor hydration, lack of strength training, technical errors, etc. It is up to the athlete to do their research and consult teachers, coaches or mentors in order to progress and achieve their goal. This takes time and is a process of trial and error.
Finally, after years of practice and application the athlete may finally reach their goal and conquer the opponent, which in this case is yourself. What you will find over time, is that as long as you are alive you are never truly champion for long. Due to your existence, new challenges and problems will arise forcing you to go back to the lab to strategize before coming back to crush them. The good news is, as exhausting of a process as that might sound, your final product keeps getting and better!
Sometimes we wake up energized and ready to attack the day while others we tend to lag behind. So too in Jiu Jitsu do we have days where we feel like our 20 year old version walloping every partner that comes before us along with days where we regret stepping foot in the dojo. Understand, that the instances where you are tired and possibly under motivated could be the best opportunity for you to develop your true Jiu Jitsu in addition to your will power and inner strength. It wasn’t until I met Saulo and Xande Ribeiro that I realized, only when you are tired and void of your natural physical advantages do you truly learn what is leverage and what is not. The need for excellent timing also arises as you are no longer able to muscle through sweeps and submissions as you once were. How do we apply this to life? With the exact same skill and cunning we use to survive and get the tap in Jiu Jitsu.
“Man the f*** up!”, a phrase spoken for decades from high school and college weight rooms to business meetings and military boot camps. Nowadays such words are frowned upon. But why? Since when did being a raw beast of a man who could protect his family and work hard towards the ultimate goal of survival and prosperity become a bad thing? One could argue since modernity led to an easier and more comfortable way of life, the result is an intellectual culture who lacks respect for the hardened individuals who made our cushy lives possible. The sailors who brought us to this land, the warriors who fought for it and the workers who built upon it.
This is not to say that there is no room for change or that this is the only way, but rather an acknowledgement that manliness and masculinity has always existed, and rightfully so. Being a man doesn’t need to be nice, it doesn’t need to be pretty, it needs to be survival. Survival of family and survival of the tribe. Getting it done, no matter what it looks like. The famous general Napoleon Bonaparte was recognized for his victories on the battlefield which meant putting emotions aside and completing the task. You can be assured that failing to do your job resulted in a verbal lashing in order to secure victory and reduce casualties. Being a man means that sometimes the ends do justify the means, so man the f*** up and get it done whether it’s in the classroom or in the workplace.